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The cause of his anger is unjustified to a
degree; however, his behaviors appeared to everyone else that his
reasoning was condemned. The child that violated his rights is ignored
now, since the perpetrator is the angry person involved. If the child
would have acted differently, then we could justify his
reasoning
for anger.
Now we are looking at unjustifiable and
justifiable combined. However, when a person gets angry and attempts to
kill another individual simply because this person refuses to be with
the angry person, we know we are dealing with unjustifiable anger. We
all get mad at times, and all of us lose control sometimes, but not all
of us hurt others when our control is out of our hands. Anytime a person
is violent, it is not always a result of anger. Some angry persons most
likely have underlying mental illnesses. This is when we look at
unjustifiable anger.
To deal with anger when a mental illness
is involved we must first dig up some bones. In other words, anger
management is not going to work until we
find the source that caused the
person to explode when angry. We can look at examples of one individual
that exploded out of anger, attacking another individual because that
person could not hear. We analyze both sides of the story carefully to
see what resulted the angry interruption.
We can see that the child has mental
illnesses, since he has been professional diagnosed. We know that this
is an instigator of his behaviors. Now, the deaf woman was assaulted
according to the person that assaulted because she could not hear. The
fact is, this woman kept the child in her home for a few months and she
was controlling. She would often get angry with him when he wanted to go
home. The child obviously was abused mentally by her controlling
behaviors. However, it was noted by an individual that child molestation
might have been in the picture, which would increase his anger.
While this was never proven a series of
patterns, fell into place, making it obvious. Therefore, although this
child had mental illnesses, coupled with angry outbursts as a problem,
he had a root and a justifiable cause. The proper way for this child to
handle the situation is telling a trustworthy adult what was going on in
the home. Instead, he struck the woman, claiming it was because she
could not hear. The child went to court and was looked down on, and the
system only displayed pity for the victim. Not in all cases does this
occur, since the victims of violent crimes are often persecuted.
Now we can go back through the child’s
history and see before this incident that he encountered other angry
outbursts. Therefore, the act committed is totally on his shoulders. The
problem is this child again has dangerous diagnosis that interrupts his
ability to function in society. Therefore, to
deal with his anger we
must find the root of his diagnose and find a solution for dealing with
the emotions involved, including all the areas that caused his anger to
explode. We can look at another example were a child becomes aggressive
and assaulting in school, attacking his teachers regularly.
The child was also
diagnosed with mental illnesses, yet at school is where most of his
behaviors displayed them selves. At times, his behaviors were
justifiable, yet irresponsible, and at other times his behaviors was
completely out of control. Since the child hears voices in his head it
caused confusion when others would speak to him, and he felt everyone
was persecuting him or out to get him. Now we are dealing with
unjustifiable cause of anger explosion.
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