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On the other
hand, when a person has self-esteem issues they are often looked down
upon since their behaviors are evident of their problem. Why do we have
self-esteem? What is the purpose of this normal product in a being?
Self-esteem is a respect for oneself, and confidence within. When we
feel in control of our person, we often know how to avoid problems
sufficiently. We will recognize the source of problem and then try to
avoid something that make our emotions explode. Usually when a person
has low self-esteem they often associate with others that have
aggressive mental issues, low self-images, and more problems than the
average deal with. They can’t protect himself from dangerous situation
that make them more suppressed.
When a person feels bad about their
self-worth, they will often join in risky activities or intake harmful
substances that only increase the anger inside. We are all different in
our own way. No one is exactly same. Some of us are abused, some heavy,
some skinny, some beautiful and some are not. We can look at this in
many ways to find a resolve inside our selves, rather than dwelling on
what we cannot change. Many of the beautiful people prove ugly since
their personalities illustrate unruly behaviors or attitudes. Beautiful
means that they have a good looking and also personality.
Therefore, are you are good person with a
low self-esteem? If you are then you might want to boost that image of
yourself since many people like a good person. Not only outside looking
but inside looking, it means attitude is very important. Did you know
that you do not have to be a rocket scientist to have a good outlook in
life? When people see us smiling cheerfully when we are out in public
they often stand back and wonder what high pill you take. They even
surprise when you told them that you don’t take any pill at all. They
will not wonder if you are rich, poor, or suffered a dreadful life,
rather they will see the person inside. People around will accept our
existence happily.
If you see how self-esteem makes or break
a person, you will know that this is an instigator of your anger. No one
have the same
way to deal with anger. When we deal with anger and good
results come in the picture then we know we have control. On the other
hand, if we are internally medicating ourselves, forcing our emotions to
believe we are less than others are, then we do not have control, rather
we have anger under the surface and at any time, we are ready to
explode. Maybe you’ll try another way to deal with. But try this first.
Let’s review you self-esteem.
How do you feel inside most days? Do you
think that you are a good person and feel that your life is in control?
Do you spend hours in the closet trying to find an outfit that will
enhance your looks? Do you spend hours in the mirror studying your
features wondering what you can change about your appearance? Do you
muse about what is going to happen with your attitude? These are a few
of the signs that tell us what type of self-esteem you have of your
self. And if you are spending hours finding a way to change your
appearance you are only developing anger within, since you are who you
are and you are not accepting it.
Most likely, you
endured some hardships throughout your history that contributed to your
self-image, therefore you need to examine your inner being and inner
child to find out what occurred that made you feel the way you do. If
you were abused, remember you were the victim and now you are survivor.
That my friend is positive and it should help to see that you are worth
as much as any other person in life. If you are standing still with your
thought about defending your anger, you will not go forward to face the
future. You are angry because of how people treated you and probably
feel like you let your self down. This is not true! Someone else let you
down, which threatened your emotions and this is where anger lies. If
you have anger issues, get help, there is nothing wrong with it!
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