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This
means they are prone to assaulting others intellect, cursing at the
problem, attacking another persons mental status, and even acting out
violently when they are mad. This type takes us to a whole knew level of
understanding anger, since a mental illness is often underlying the
emotions.
A
person of this magnitude of anger is known as a narcissistic personality
type. Paranoid schizophrenias, histrionic personality types and a few
other have a pretentious personality underlying the diagnose. When we
see that a person is angry due to a mental illness then anger management
may or may not work. Most histrionic personality types are firm in their
way of thinking, therefore more extensive therapy is needed to deal with
this type. If you experienced anger outbursts, you realize that you feel
remorse after the interruption takes place.
On the
other hand, if you have a histrionic or paranoid personality remorse is
not in the picture. A person has to have a sense of remorse to become
subject to recovery in anger management. Although the psychotherapist
may find a resolve, it will be minimal. Unfortunately, in some cases of
this type of anger, there is no resolve and the patient may eventually
destroy another person’s life. Uncontrolled anger includes, striking,
hitting, punching, assaulting mentally, verbally assault, and even
murder.
Now we
are looking at a serious problem since anyone is at risk of being
subjected to these types of personality. A more common form of anger is
a mild name calling, such as you were acting like a jerk.
Alternatively, damn why did you do that? Some of us might even say
why you centered me out as a target to anger. The person will raise the
voice assertively, and often walk away when the person does not reply as
he or she intended.
There
are forms of anger that can be dealt with and some are rooted from
jealousy. Well, the world is acting out of accordance to man’s beliefs
most of the time so in a lot of instances there is just cause. The
problem is dealing with it so that it does not get the best of you. For
example if you are married and suspect that your spouse is having an
affair you might confront this person rather than accusing.
Find
out the details before you blow up and cause a commotion. If the person
is cheating then you have two options. You can forgive the persons
infidelity and move on or you can hire a lawyer and find a more
suitable, trusting mate. I would choose the latter since cheaters are
liars and thieves trying to get away with something, therefore the
person are not trustworthy in most cases. See the reasoning behind this?
Of course, it is going to hurt, but in the end, you will see that you
made a good choice and good decision. If you decide to stay with the
person, remember your forgave so do not bring up failures when another
problem occurs someday.
Failure is success flipped over and if you review failure in a positive
light, you problems will reduce as you move forward in life. Failure is
success if we learn from it. If you have a pretentious personality, you
will need help, since the mountains are more difficulty for you to
climb. Do not be a failure
control your anger before it controls your
life.
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